Ghanaian sensational musician and model Deborah Osei Bonsu known well as Sister Derby has disclosed that she is not desperate to get married or have children.
Recall that Sister Derby’s relationship with artist Medikal did not end well as the break up of their relationship became public. The break up of their relationship caused a clash between Sister Derby and the present wife of Medikal, Fella Makafui.
In an interview on Ameyaw TV, the musician stated that she is happy with her new relationship with her new man adding that she is not desperate to tie the knot.
“I am not desperate for marriage at all. If I don’t get married or have children, I am still happy and fine with myself. I don’t feel like it is the end of the world because of it, I have always been independent.
“I’m not rushing for marriage. Will it bring me 5 million dollars?” she asked.
Sister Derby also shared a piece of advice to young women who are yet married that they should bow to the pressures of society and end up in an abusive marriage.
“Don’t force yourself into marriage because of societal pressures. Make sure that’s the right partner for you, understand each, have good communication, and enjoy each other’s company,” she noted.
Explaining why she has always flaunted her new boyfriend in public, She said she does not see the point in hiding him if he is serious and makes her comfortable.
“I am the kind of person that likes to be free and not stressed. Hiding, pretending, and calculating are very stressful to me. But if I am comfortable and the person is showing signs of seriousness why should I be hiding? Why should I care about society? everybody goes through relationships and breakups.
“The truth is if you’re comfortable with someone and enjoy their company then you want to be around them all the time. My partner enjoys my company and so do I,” she stressed.
